it's a waiting game from here

The further you get into a relationship the more it hurts when you realise things are going wrong or when you argue, maybe its because the person means so much more to you at that stage and although you're frustrated and angry, you're also scared to hell that what you said hurt the other person beyond repair. This is probably why a lot of friends and couples don't always say exactly what they need to or are thinking, although the saying 'Think before you speak' is a valuable lesson to learn trust me. The scariest thing also is the deeper you go the more of you the other person holds to destroy, which also works both ways. This could mean that the smallest thing could hurt the other person, but in contradiction to that you should also be more forgiving towards the other person the deeper you get because you become more sympathetic and understanding of the persons personality traits and behavioural tendencies.
There is always that strange feeling you get when you think someone might not want you around, so naturally you step away and wait for them to approach or for some kind of sign that they are ready to talk about it. But what if there are no signs and no approach is it then ok to make the first move? Putting too much distance could potential make the other person believe that you don't care which is never really the truth. Sometimes you wish you could help but there is no conceivable means of helping because the other person isn't ready to accept it and then the only thing to do is wait.
~time heals all...apparently~