Chances for all

Can someone run out of chances?

Does it get to a stage where it just turns into taking advantage of another's goodwill or do chances just depend on the person handing them out?

I would like to say that I forgive easily and am unable to form the emotion linked to hatred and in most respects that is very true but somethings lie deeper than just a sorry, they have to be felt and meant and acted on in such a way that prevents them happening again, but how will you ever really be sure of that, I guess its a chance we take ourselves.

Someone wise told me that sometimes its not the other person who you need to give the chance to but yourself, for not all changes rely on one person alone and that is very true. You may be giving chances away like the wind blows but they mean nothing if the person you give them to cant or wont change alone and thats why you have to change a little too, but are you willing, am I willing? I can honestly say I do not know, it would be like causing myself unnecessary pain or is it worth it? That's a stupid question because the only way we would ever know the answer to that one is if we could see in to the future, so I guess its another chance we just have to take.

Why so many chances?

Ciao

sobz